Redefining Success: It’s Not What You Earn, It’s How You Manage It
Aug 28, 2024The Illusion of “Mo Money, Less Problems”
Many believe that earning more money automatically leads to financial stability. Yet, time and again, we see people with significant incomes struggling to make ends meet. Think Mike Tyson, Nicolas Cage, and Toni Braxton, to name a few celebrities who’ve almost lost it all due to financial mismanagement.
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The truth is, even a high income can slip through your fingers if it’s not managed well—and the statistics back this up. Studies show that nearly 60% of high-income earners, those making over $100,000 a year, still live paycheck to paycheck. This is often due to lifestyle inflation, where expenses rise just as quickly as income. It’s not uncommon for people to think, "The next bonus, RSU, or commission check will cover this trip or pay off that credit card." This mindset—borrowing from your future self to pay for past decisions instead of funding future goals—can lead to ongoing financial stress and missed opportunities for wealth building.
Why Management Matters More Than Income
The truth is that income alone cannot build wealth. Financial success is a puzzle, and your paycheck plays just one part of that picture. Let’s dive a little deeper:
Overcoming the Scarcity Mindset
One of the biggest hurdles to financial wellness is the scarcity mindset—letting limiting beliefs about money, wealth, and debt play a role in how we manage our finances. This mindset can lead to impulsive decisions, like liquidating retirement accounts or making extreme budget cuts that aren’t sustainable (like cutting out groceries—you've got to eat! I've seen it all). I’ve seen how this mindset can derail even the best financial plans. The key is to shift from scarcity to abundance, practicing gratitude for your current situation, and making strategic, informed decisions that align with your long-term goals.
Practical Steps to Redefine Success
Redefining success starts with understanding that it’s not just about what you earn, but how you manage it. Here are some practical steps to help you get started:
- Create a Sustainable Budget: Include short- and long-term savings, investing, and debt repayment. Ensure your budget reflects your values and goals, not just your obligations.
- Invest in Financial Literacy: Knowledge is power. Understanding how to manage your money effectively is just as important as earning it. Consider working with a financial coach or attending workshops to deepen your understanding.
- Mindset Matters: Work on shifting from a scarcity mindset to one of abundance. This doesn’t mean ignoring your financial challenges, but rather approaching them with a sense of possibility and control.
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How do you define success?
Success is not a number. Success is seeing the efforts of your plan becoming your reality. By focusing on budgeting, investing, and mindset, you can create financial freedom on your terms. It’s not about getting it perfect—because nothing about life is perfect, and your finances mirror that truth. It’s about taking small, meaningful steps that build momentum and confidence. With the right approach, you can craft a life that feels abundant, secure, and uniquely yours.
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